What to Do on Your Elopement Day: A Meaningful, Fun-Filled Timeline Guide
Not sure what your elopement day should actually look like? You’re not alone. One of the most exciting — and sometimes overwhelming — parts of eloping is that there’s no set schedule to follow. But that’s also the beauty of it: your elopement day can be anything you want it to be.
Whether you're saying your vows along the shores of Lake Michigan or Lake Superior, exchanging rings in a quiet forest, or traveling to an entirely new place, this is your day to design from start to finish.
Here's a guide to inspire you with ideas, sample timelines, and tips for crafting an unforgettable elopement experience in the heart of the Midwest.
First: Shift Your Mindset — This is Still Your Wedding Day
Just because you’re not having a traditional 10-hour wedding doesn’t mean your elopement should be rushed. Many couples think an elopement is just a quick ceremony and some portraits — but it can (and should!) be a full-day experience celebrating your love, your way.
This is your opportunity to slow down, be intentional, and experience a day that’s genuinely about you two.
What Can You Do on Your Elopement Day?
Start with a Slow, Intentional Morning
Coffee together at your Airbnb or campsite
Handwriting vows or letters to read later
Journaling, meditating, or doing yoga
Making breakfast together or with a private chef
Get ready together! Or stay separate and have a first look
Have a parent, friend, or even your dog help you get dressed
The Ceremony
Choose a meaningful location — mountains, beach, forest, urban rooftop
Include a private vow reading or first look
Invite a few close guests or keep it completely private
Post-Ceremony Adventures
Explore a national/state park, go hiking, or take a tour
Rent a canoe or paddleboard
Visit local landmarks or cultural spots
Pop champagne and have a picnic
Celebrate!
Book a private dinner with a chef or go to a special restaurant
Watch the sunset or stargaze
Share a first dance in a scenic spot or under string lights
Read letters from loved ones if they couldn’t be there
Final Tips to Make Your Elopement Day Unforgettable:
Plan with intention. Think about what feels most like “you” as a couple.
Leave buffer time. Avoid rushing — slow is magical.
Make it personal. Include traditions, rituals, or activities that matter to you.
Hire vendors who support your vision. A good elopement photographer (meee! 👋) helps with timeline planning, logistics, and keeping things relaxed and fun.
Ready to Plan Your Wisconsin Elopement?
From beachy bluffs to forest trails and quiet cabins, Wisconsin has so many hidden gems to create the perfect elopement day. If you’re dreaming up something intentional, adventurous, or just beautifully you — I’d love to help bring it to life.
